My boyfriend doesn't let me know what feel good to him during . What do I do?

My bf and I have been together six months and has gotten to be routinely once every other day. I ask him what feels good but he just will not tell me and he does not make any sounds when we make love so I am completely clueless on what turns him on. We are both young and at least I love a lot of and he will not give it to me. Its just pants down and boom thats it. No kissing first unless I ask him to do it. But I feel there is no need for me to ask him to kiss me. help me out please!!! what do guys like? please give me examples like playing with his ear or touching his back or what??? and how do I get him to do more ?