Been married for 28 yrs. hubby has worked a graveyard shift for 25 years and I stay up to wake him for work an

and he usually asleep in the recliner so I wake him up and tell him to go to bed, he says I will, but falls asleep again I wake him over and over again and maybe 2 out 50 times a night of me trying to get him to go to bed he will- I have been doing this for a lot of years and I finally got tired of it and only wake him up a couple of times and if he doesn't go to bed I leave him in the chair- then when I get him up to go to work he yells at me for not making him go to bed- how do i change this situation before I lose it and go ballistic all over him???I tell him I woke him up and he yells "NO YOU DIDN"T" and I can't convince him otherwise- I have tape recorded it so he will know it is true but he won't listen to it! I feel like a freakin' parrot- "---- get up & go to bed"-- and 6 hours later" ----get up and go to work" It is insane and making me this way!!